That is fine you all can be David backers all you want, My children know the truth and when they are older they will make thier own decision about the things that happen. They do have thier own opinions and thier own ideas because that is how i have taught them and raised them. That is what makes them who they are which is very loving, polite, affectionate and bright children that any parent would be proud of. I know i am doing what is right for my children and in the long run they will thank me when they become productive, well mannered, responsible adults.