Dave -

I've looked around a bit here in the past couple of weeks and it's interesting to see what you've gone through. Even if I wear a pair of "see both sides" glasses, taking into account any "bias" that may be on your account of things... Stacy's own postings here show that there is a HUGE problem on her end. She's horribly sidetracked with YOU, and YOU ALONE. As well, some observations:

1. I find it unfortunate that you had to bother going back and forth over these (very pathetic) guidelines that were offered and counteroffered about how the kids are to be maintained. Stacy by her own actions has very severe control issues (lack thereof).

2. Apparently the fact that what happens in each household is 100% NONE OF THE OTHER PARTY'S BUSINESS was totally lost in all of this. That, combined with the apparent lack of intelligence on the part of Stacy's counsel made this all just plain... dumb.

3. I feel for you that your children only see you every couple of weeks. I know when my wife chose divorce so she could continue to "sow her oats" wildly, I made sure, very easily, that she was removed from the picture to the bare minimum (and then she removed herself by moving to California a few months later -- bizarre). My four children live "happily" with me (as much as four children without a mother present can), and that makes me even more sad of your situation.

4. Does Stacy's new "husband"(?!) know that she obsesses over you, visits your website, and posts messages to and/or about you so much?! What gives? Is she dissatisfied with her latest husband or what?

I truly hope your children somehow come out as "well adjusted" as they can.


Anthony
Proud father of the Mighty Four
Daniella 1989
Amanda 1990
Anthony 1991
Christopher 1993
Sad to be divorced,
but happy to be with those he loves.