Grandparents Visit to
My dad and my step-mom Dolly came to
visit us over Thanksgiving in their brand new RV. They bought both kids
Christmas presents and had the kids for a couple of days in their RV. They also
bought me a nice sized grill and cat toys for Takako’s cats. They bought Stacy
a set of kitchen bowls.
Stacy was very pleasant and
agreeable when Dolly contacted her and asked if she could see the kids. My
parents drove up to
In regards to the kids, Dolly said
that they were “good kids” but that she couldn’t get over how “wasteful they
were with their food”. “I would never tolerate that in my house” she said. In
regards to Stacy, Dolly said she had always believed that Stacy was a poor
choice to have children with, but that in the end “it will all work out” and the
kids are basically “good kids” so I should not worry about it.
Then Dolly told me of an incident that
happened shortly after Stacy became pregnant with our first child. According to
Dolly, Stacy and her “white trash of a mother” came to her house to discuss
their “concerns” about David. They claimed to be worried that I would somehow
hurt the child when it was born because I had told Stacy of my experience with
an abusive step-father in my youth. At the time I was about 9 years old and was
living with my mother. My step-father was physically abusive and his older son
tried to engage me and my younger brother in sexual activities. Children Services
looked into this and resulted in us moving in with Dad and Dolly. My mother
divorced shortly after. Stacy and her mom told Dolly that they wanted to know
if she thought I would abuse my child and what they should do about it. Dolly
said that basically she told them that she thought I would be an excellent
father and that to get out and never come back. “The audacity
of them coming to ask me! Imagine that!” Dolly said.
