Documentation October 2004
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Fri |
STACY, DAVID AT |
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Dave tried to get the
party information from Stacy but she refused. Stacy said that she went to the
school's open house and found out from Mirrissa's teacher that she was not
paying attention in class. Stacy thought she should be getting a tutor for
Mirrissa and now Mirrissa is receiving tutoring from the assistant. Dave asked if she needed money for the tutor but
Stacy said it was free. Stacy said that the problems Mirrissa is having
following instructions is because Dave fails to follow through on the punishments
she imposes on her and that is why she is not going to go to the birthday
party. |
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Sat |
DAVID |
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Mirrissa went to the
birthday party. It was at the Trails (Nova community park). Mirrissa did not participate
in the party, Mirrissa acted as though she was guilty for being there. She
did wish the birthday boy a happy birthday. David and the kids played in the
park for about an hour then left. |
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Sun |
DAVID, STACY AT |
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Kids helped Dave wash the
Jeep. Kids changed into the clothes they came in on Friday and left. |
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Mon |
STACY |
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no call |
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Tue |
STACY |
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no call. Dave called
school to get in touch with Mrs. Padgett. |
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Wed |
STACY |
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Stacy called Dave asking
if he could watch the kids on Friday night because she is going out. She also
said that Zach is enrolling in Boy Scouts and asked if Dave could take him to
his meeting on Friday. Dave said yes, and to send him the information. Stacy
said no, she is going to get him all signed up. Dave said fine, to tell him
where to go. Stacy said she will come pick the kids up Saturday morning
around 9 or |
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Thu |
STACY |
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no call |
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Fri |
STACY |
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Stacy never showed up to
drop the kids off. Later she called and said she didn't need Dave to watch
the kids after all. |
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Sat |
STACY |
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Dave spent most of the day
working from home. |
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Sun |
STACY |
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Dave spent most of the day
working from home. |
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Mon |
STACY |
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Stacy called and told Dave
about how unhappy she was that the kids came back in the clothes they wore over
to Dave's last visit. She said the clothes were so badly stained that she had
to spend hours trying to get the ketchup and things out. Stacy said that she
was going to make sure it didn't happen again by telling Ms. Devine on their
appointment. Dave told her that he didn't know of any stains because the kids
took off their clothes when they walked in and didn't put them back on until
it was time for them to leave. |
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Tue |
STACY |
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no call. Dave asked Takako
to go to the |
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Wed |
STACY |
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Appointment with Mr. B to
discuss mediation. Stacy and Dave go see Ms. Devine. It was resolved that David
and Stacy will communicate by phone for 3 minutes twice a week, the parent
dropping off or picking up the kids will remain in the car to avoid any
unpleasant meetings at the door. David did not get a chance bring up the
tutor for Mirrissa or the Boy Scouts for Zachary. Next Meeting will be
November 8th after the November 4th Mediation. |
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Thu |
STACY |
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no call. Stacy calls
Dave's cell phone and says she has decided to get internet again and she needed
Dave to come to her house to put the NIC card back into her computer that she
took out some time ago. Dave did not call back |
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Fri |
STACY, DAVID AT |
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David Picks up the kids at
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Sat |
DAVID |
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David and the kids spend
the day watching movies and playing games. Went to Krispy Kreme and had free
doughnuts for a "Shark Tail" picture that Mirrissa colored. |
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Sun |
DAVID, STACY AT |
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David and Kids go to the
movie theater and watch "Shark Tail". David returned the kids to
Stacy without event. |
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Mon |
STACY |
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David picks up the kids from
school they go to the meeting with Ms. Devine. Discovered that Stacy let
Mirrissa stay up until |
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Tue |
STACY |
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David put the rat back in
the cage with Exodia and while David is at work the rat kills Exodia. |
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Wed |
STACY |
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No Call |
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Thu |
STACY |
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No Call |
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Fri |
STACY |
David At |
Stacy called David at
approximatly |
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Sat |
STACY |
David. |
David and the kids went to
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Sun |
STACY |
David to Stacy at |
The kids helped pack, somewhat,
since Carrie was not home to play. Stacy called about |
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Zach was anxious all day
about being "late" going back to his moms house. He was bringing up excuses for why we were late.
Zach rode with Takako on the way back and told her that he had had a good weekend and he was
happy that Daddy will get the kids three weekends in a row. Dolly called Dave asking him to look up RV
park in Daytona for when they visit in Nov. Kids were excited to hear grandma
was coming over and wanted to know about the RV. |
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Takako gave the kids some
earrings in the shape of reptiles. The kids took them to Stacie's. The kids
thanked Takako profusely for the earrings. |
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Mon |
STACY |
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No Call. |
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Tue |
STACY |
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No Call. |
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-----Original
Message----- Ms Padgett, My name is David Prather and I am Mirrissa Prather’s father. Her mother Stacy Erickson and I are separated and we are going through a difficult custody battle. Because of this I have been unable to obtain any information regarding Mirrissa’s progress in 2nd grade. I understand that Mirrissa has some serious problems paying attention in class and trouble interacting with friends. Thanks to you, Stacy has told me, that Mirrissa is receiving daily tutoring from your assistant. I understand that this is free of charge but I wanted to make you aware that I will be able to pay for any incurred costs for this tutoring. I would like to be kept up to date on Mirrissa’s progress and I was hoping we could keep in close contact. I am available through email as well as in person visits or whatever you prefer. I understand last week was report card week. I would like to get a copy of this as well any homework or tests completed by Mirrissa. I would be interested in any suggestions you have about how to improve Mirrissa’s academic and interpersonal skills. I look forward to hearing from you. Thanks, -----Original
Message----- Hello Ms. McMillan Thank you for meeting with me a couple of weeks ago to discus Zachary’s progress in 4th grade. I understand last week was report card week. As I mentioned before Stacy Erickson, Zachary’s mother, and I are in a difficult custody battle. I have been unable to recieve any information through his mother on his progress. I would like to recieve a copy of his report card and any homework or tests he has completed to date. I was hoping to keep in close contact with you. Let me know if corresponding by email will work for you. If you prefer appointments I will be available. I would like to schedule a meeting with you at least once a month. Thanks, David Prather |
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Wed |
STACY |
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Zachary
called and told David about his report card and how happy he was that he
received one B and the rest A's. David
told Zachary about the Lunar eclipse. Stacy did tickle Zachary and draw his
attention away while Zachary was talking to David. |
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-----Original Message----- Dear Mr. Prather, Just to clear up any confusion, last week was not report card week for our county. Flagler county received their report cards last week. Report cards go home today for us. I have already made you a copy. I will send it home with Zachary. Thank you. |
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-----Original Message----- Mr. Prather, Report cards go home today ,and I sent a copy to you in the mail yesterday. So, hopefully you will receive it today or tomorrow. I will send copies and results of important academic results. It is likely that Mirrissa will have personal and interpersonal problems as a result of divorce. Your reassurance to her and modeling sound interpersonal skills yourself is vital to her self esteem and emotional stability. We are providing all the positive academic and emotional support we can here. She seems very content and secure in this school environment. Mrs. Padgett |
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Thu |
STACY |
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No Call. |
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Fri |
STACY, DAVID AT |
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David called Stacy at |
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Zachary told David that Mommy
wants all his Hot Wheels brought home. David called Stacy, on speaker phone,
to ask if this was true and Stacy said they are his cars and she did not care
what he did with them. Zachary did not reply just shook his head. David made
it clear with everyone that the kids belongings are the kids belongings and
the kids are responsible for them. Mirrissa told David that Mommy is giving
her Nyquil so she can sleep. David told Mirrissa that Mommy should not be
giving Mirrissa anything to help her sleep except to shut off the TV and go
to bed. |
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-----Original
Message----- I wanted to thank you for mailing me Mirrissa’s report card. You are absolutely right about Mirrissa and I think we are on the same page. One additional thing is I would like the name of the tutor Mirrissa is seeing especially be cause I know that Mirrissa is not easy to tutor and I would like to thank her for her time. Stacy has told me that Mirrissa is making good progress with her tutor and I wanted to thank her for her time. -----Original Message----- Mirrissa is receiving extra help from Mrs. Fruits and Mrs. Poli |
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-----Original Message----- Thank you, I look forward to seeing Zachary's report card this weekend. Please let me know if there are any behavior concerns. He has recently lost his pet snake and I am concerned that he may be more moody than usual. His mom said he is now enrolled in boy scouts at the school so I hope that will become a new interest for him. I will be in touch. Please do not hesitate to contact me about any concerns you may have. |
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Sat |
DAVID |
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David and the kids drove
to |
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Mirrissa commented several
times that "It looks like Daddy and Takako are married." David and
Takako did not know what to make of that. We arrived back in |
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Sun |
DAVID, STACY AT |
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Everyone got up around |
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Zachary knew where all the
stores were and rushed to go to his favorite store. The bracelets as it turns
out were for adult themes. David has become more concerned about all the
adult themes and rapper like language Zachary is using. Zachary knew where
all the stores were and rushed to go to his favorite store. The bracelets as
it turns out were for adult themes. David has become more concerned about all
the adult themes and rapper like language Zachary is using. Mirrissa wanted
to hold Takako's hand almost the entire time at the mall. |
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After shopping everyone was
hungry so we went home. On the way home from the mall Zachary said that his
ears hurt. When we arrived home David took Zachary in to the bathroom and
applied some Neosporin to his ear. David told Zachary that he need to where
silver or gold earring and not the cheap lead earrings. Zachary did not
reply. The rest of the afternoon was spent playing ball, games and movies.
The kids took a shower before David returned kids to Stacy at |
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Stacy asked David why the
kids did not have costumes on. David replied that the kids did not want to
make any costumes for Halloween. Stacy told David "Your too cheap to go
get the kids costumes." to which David replied as before. As the kids
were getting out of the Jeep Stacy looked over the kids at David and said
"your pathetic". The kids finished getting out and went into the
house. David drove home. |
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In contrary
to what Stacy said before the neighbors (Tracy, Kyle and Courtney) had never
attended Holly hill (in private school) despite Stacy's claim that all the neighbors went to Holly hill and that is
where their friends are. |