Documentation March 2004

 

date

day

Scheduled

School

Details

Odd numbers are David, Even numbers are Stacy

    YMCA Camp 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

    Karate 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

    Stacy 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

    Mirrissa 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

    Police 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

    PAS 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

    Babysitter 1 2

3/1/04

Mon

Stacy after school, David overnight

$700

Gave Stacy check for her monthly $700. Kids stay with Stacy due to argument previous night.

3/2/04

Tue

Stacy after school, David overnight

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: serickson01@bellsouth.net [mailto:serickson01@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Tuesday, March 02, 2004 8:40 PM

 To: David_P@bellsouth.net

 Subject: visitation arrangement

 Here is what i have come up with, and i am not going to argue with you anymore. you go ahead and believe what ever it is you want to believe about me i really dont give a crap anymore. I am just glad that i am not with you anymore.  

Monday:dave 

Tuesday:stacy 

Wednesday:stacy

Thursday:dave

Friday:stacy

Saturday:dave

Sunday:dave 

on this weekend i get them back at no later than 6:00 pm  

monday:stacy

Tuesday:dave

Wednesday:dave

Thursday:stacy

Friday:Dave

Saturday:stacy

Sunday:stacy

 on this weekend you get them back no later than 6:00 pm and if you show up late to pick them up i dont care to hear that you didnt get to spend much time with them. 

 

this will start after my weekend with them this week you may pick them up on sunday evening at 6:00 pm. if we cant come to an agreement this time i am done arguing with you and i also think if we cannot agree upon anything this time then we need to have a mediator. Because i am not going to put of with your verbal abuse anymore with you saying that i am ignorant, and have very little brains. You need to just keep it to yourself because i dont care to listen to it anymore. 

 

 

 

 

From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Tuesday, March 02, 2004 10:35 PM

 To: 'serickson01@bellsouth.net'

 Subject: RE: visitation arrangement 

This schedule is NOT good. Every Friday should be the turn over. NOT Saturday. That just screws up the whole weekend. How about this:

 Monday    - Dave

Tuesday   - Stacy

Wednesday - Stacy

Thursday  - Stacy

Friday    - Dave

Saturday  - Dave

Sunday    - Dave 

Monday    - Stacy

Tuesday   - Dave 

Wednesday - Dave

Thursday  - Dave

Friday    - Stacy

Saturday  - Stacy

Sunday    - Stacy 

 

And we can do without the Queen of Comments', comments everywhere.  And you want to talk about verbal abuse. What do you call last Sunday? What you did to the kids IS UNFORGIVABLE. Hurry, hurry go get in the Jeep(That daddy pays for) while daddy is making your dinner so I can take you away from him and prove that I am sneeky.  What is that STACY??? OOO my god. Your actions on Sunday night were so set a new low even for you. What would you have done if I had done that to you tonight? Totally Unbeleivable.  Anyway, this schedule should elimate any further outrageous actions like last Sunday.    Many thanks, David Prather

3/3/04

Wed

Stacy after school, David overnight

 

Dave asks Stacy to propose a schedule she would like to have because he doesn't want last Sunday to happen ever again. They finally agree on a schedule to take effect after this weekend where it is Stacy's turn to have the kids.

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: serickson01@bellsouth.net [mailto:serickson01@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Wednesday, March 03, 2004 11:42 AM

 To: david_p@bellsouth.net

 Subject: Re: RE: visitation arrangement  

 

> I would like to know how it messes up the whole weekend. The only one that is messes up is you because you wouldn't be able to go to Plant City when ever you want to. It doesn't mess up my weekends. And i am so sick of hearing that you pay for the Jeep, that was out origial agreement, and you should be looking at

 From the point of view that the kids are traveling in that jeep, instead you are so obsessed with the fact that i have it. You should really start thinking about how things benefit the kids, instead of focussing on the hate that you have for me. And also i did nothing to the kids on Sunday night accept come to pick them up, you were the one that was pulling on the back of Zachary's coat and picking Mirrissa up by the waist when she was holding my hand. I don't forcefully take them away  from you like that, nor do i block you

 From leaving with them, as you did. I will agree to the schedule for right now, but on the weekends come Sunday whom ever has them, the other parent will be picking them up no later than 6:00 pm on Sunday evening. So i guess for you that means you have to leave Plant City at 4:30 in order to be back here by 6:00 pm.

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Wednesday, March 03, 2004 9:14 PM

 To: 'serickson01@bellsouth.net'

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement

  DONE then!!!    

 

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Wednesday, March 03, 2004 9:54 PM

 To: 'serickson01@bellsouth.net'

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement

  You should also start thinking about how to pay for thing yourself because I am sick of paying for things for YOU. The kids are fine. I will pay for anything THEY need. THEY do not need a jeep. I can take them anywhere they need to go. I THINK you need to think about WHO stuff is REALLY FOR. Yes I realize that without transportation the kids will have to rely on me more SO that is why I am paying for YOUR jeep. I also think you need to REALIZE that I can NOW take care of the kids half the time, same as you. So why should I have to pay YOU for ANYTHING for the KIDS. You are there MOTHER so half the responsibility belongs to you as well as ME. I have been meeting my half++++++ of the responsibility. I think you should be paying me for taking care of the kids. ANYWAY I don't care about the money because SOON you will graduate

 From school and you finally will be able to take care of YOURSELF. So, enough said about that.  As far as the kids go on Sunday, you were there you know the truth. You can choose to believe reality or you can stay in your fantasy world, I don't care what you do so long as what you do does not continue to negatively affect the kids.  Have a nice day, David Prather

3/4/04

Thu

Stacy after school, David overnight

 

Stacy calls to tell Dave that "kids aren't going anywhere today because Mirrissa is sick. She has a temperature of 104 and threw up in school. Stacy was mad that the teacher did not notice this and failed to contact her.  Dave said well Mirrissa can be sick at my place then. When Dave went to pick up the kids they seemed fine. Stacy had Mirrissa's homework out on the kitchen table and Mirrissa was watching TV. Stacy said fine, "Mirrissa will have to do her homework at your place then". Takako helped her with her homework and got it all done.

3/5/04

Fri

Stacy

$50 gas, $50 groceries

Stacy $50 for gas, $50 for groceries. Stacy reports that Mirrissa was sick again at school. She thinks that there is something going on at school that upset Mirrissa resulting in this fake illness

3/6/04

Sat

Stacy

 

Kids go to beach with Stacy.

3/7/04

Sun

Stacy daytime, Dave overnight

 

Dave picks up kids at 6pm as scheduled. Stacy e-mails back to say the new schedule will not work for her  because she can't go 3 days with out seeing the kids. Dave agrees to go back to her original schedule which switches parents in two nights. This schedule will start tomorrow with Dave picking up the kids.

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: serickson01@bellsouth.net [mailto:serickson01@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Sunday, March 07, 2004 6:18 PM

 To: david_p@bellsouth.net

 Subject: Re: RE: visitation arrangement

 

  i am not going to go three days with out seeing my kids so i dont know what we are going to do with the schedule 

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Sunday, March 07, 2004 9:19 PM

 To: 'serickson01@bellsouth.net'

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement

   Stacy, I will be willing to agree to your original schedule so that the longest you will go with out seeing the kids will be limited to 2 days. However after this change I will not agree to any more changes. I had finally gotten an OK  From work on the schedule I printed out for you today. I had to basically tell my boss to agree to the previous schedule or fire me. Now changing the schedule again is putting me in a bad position. Please think about this schedule carefully so that there will be no sudden realizations like this after it is implemented.

   Monday:dave 

Tuesday:stacy 

Wednesday:stacy

Thursday:dave

Friday:stacy

Saturday:dave

Sunday:dave   

monday:stacy

Tuesday:dave

Wednesday:dave

Thursday:stacy

Friday:Dave

Saturday:stacy

Sunday:stacy   

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: serickson01@bellsouth.net [mailto:serickson01@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Sunday, March 07, 2004 10:10 PM

 To: david_p@bellsouth.net

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement  

> it is not the scedule i have a problem with but i am used to picking up the kids

 From school everyday, i just cant go with out seeing them for three days in a row. And even though you hate me so much, you of all people should know that i dont like being with out my kids. Do you remember how hard it was for me when we first came down here to visit the florida area and i was away  From them for a week?? I will not ever do that again. You should have talked to me first instead of talking to your girl friend about it before you went to your job and jepordized your job over it. I never told you to do that. You have never jepordized your job before for your family so why should you start now. Cause had you done that the three of us (me, Zachary and Mirrissa would never have gotten hurt) But you always seem to do things after the fact. And i dont think i should have to change the way that i feel about my family and my kids just for the sake of you. 

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Sunday, March 07, 2004 10:52 PM

 To: 'serickson01@bellsouth.net'

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement  

Ok, I am sorry I even mentioned my work. My work is my work and it is not your concern. I am just determined to have my half of the time with the kids. You felt the original schedule where I asked you to pick up the kids everyday and let me take them to school was unfair. So I am willing to meet you all the way and adjusting my life around what you want in order to have my time with the kids. As I said before, the schedule you proposed is not convenient for me. However, I will not let that get in the way of spending my half of the time with the kids. Just let me know what you think is the best schedule and I will work around it, no questions asked as long as kids are with me 50% of the time.   

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: serickson01@bellsouth.net [mailto:serickson01@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Sunday, March 07, 2004 11:10 PM

 To: david_p@bellsouth.net

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement 

Well then if it is none of my concern then dont complain about it to me. My original schedule will be fine, i just wont go three days without seeing my kids not now and not ever. and i wont change that for anyone. > 

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Sunday, March 07, 2004 11:19 PM

 To: 'serickson01@bellsouth.net'

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement 

Then this is the schedule we will go with and this will apply regardless of kids school schedule, my work schedule or your schedule. Tomorrow I will have the kids. Thank you for this schedule which gives me more waking hours with the kids than our old schedule.   Monday:dave 

Tuesday:stacy 

Wednesday:stacy

Thursday:dave

Friday:stacy

Saturday:dave

Sunday:dave   

monday:stacy

Tuesday:dave

Wednesday:dave

Thursday:stacy

Friday:Dave

Saturday:stacy

Sunday:stacy     

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: serickson01@bellsouth.net [mailto:serickson01@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Sunday, March 07, 2004 11:27 PM

 To: david_p@bellsouth.net

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement  

> i never had a problem with you spending time with the kids, the part i had a problem with is you thinking that they would spend everynight with you, regardless to how i felt about it. If you would actually sit down and talk to me without your hatefullness towards me you would actually find out that i am not that bad of a person to talk to. 

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Sunday, March 07, 2004 11:41 PM

 To: 'serickson01@bellsouth.net'

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement

 

 So please understand that I am not ready to speak to you without feeling the "hatred" you so sensitively perceive in my words. In truth, what you feel or think is of no interest to me. We are partners in raising our children and I will do my best to hold up my end of the arrangement to the letter. However seeing or speaking to you is very difficult for me and I would like to see as little of you as possible in the future. It would be a great favor to me if you and I only spoke about the kids in our conversations. Then maybe I may be able to stop hating you so much. I am sorry for not having a bigger heart on this matter but the kids are my only concern and that doesn't include you.  Thank you for your understanding

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

From: serickson01@bellsouth.net [mailto:serickson01@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Sunday, March 07, 2004 11:49 PM

 To: david_p@bellsouth.net

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement

 

  As far as your heart goes you havnt had one for the last two years and i dont think you ever will again. And as far as seeing, the only reason i allow you to come around is because the kids want to see you, and that is the only reason you are even aloud in my home. The only thing i cant understand is why you hate me so much, you are the one who cheated on me and would not communicate with me just like you do now. As far as i go i couldnt give a shit less whether i ever see you again, but because of the kids i have no choice. In my eyes you are a poor excuse for a MAN. Because a real man would have never done the things you have done to his family. So you are the one that is going to have to live with that for the rest of your life. Knowing that you hurt me and the kids. And that you have hurt me so bad that i cant even trust anyone, not even to be someones friend because i cant trust whether or not they are being sincere in what they are saying. So for that i Thank you

 From the bottom of My Heart.  

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Monday, March 08, 2004 12:03 AM

 To: 'serickson01@bellsouth.net'

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement

 For once, we are in perfect agreement. Please replace "last two years" with "last 12 years" as my outburst. A real woman would not have tolerated me as such. Had you been a real woman and kicked me out after the affair, I would have respected you more. But I know that is impossible for you. As far as you not being able to trust anybody, it sounds like you made a very poor decision to be involved with a man like me. And even there I am in complete agreement with your feelings. You once said I was unbelievable. I find you unbelievable too. As long as we are in agreement, please remember to come pick up the kids at 8 am on Friday so I can go to work. I will also be picking them up on Saturday morning at 8 for my weekend.    

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: serickson01@bellsouth.net [mailto:serickson01@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Monday, March 08, 2004 12:19 AM

 To: david_p@bellsouth.net

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement  

> You would have respected me more if i would have kicked you out, that is a funny one seems how i have spent the last 11 years doing nothing but falling in love with you. And coming

 From you that just shows how egotistical you really are. You couldnt even see real love when it was staring you right in the face. You had a woman that loved you more than life itself and you stomped on it. And as far as me being a real woman, I am a real woman, because a real woman sticks by her family through the good times and the bad, and doesnt just bail at the first bad thing that happens, Unlike you having to take the cowards way out, and that is all you will ever be. I think you can go into work late on Friday because i cannot miss school on Friday because i have my final test.

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Monday, March 08, 2004 12:32 AM

 To: 'serickson01@bellsouth.net'

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement

  Already not following your schedule?

That will be fine, I will take the day off to be with the kids on Friday to accommodate your schedule change. I was just reminding you because it was your day to be with them. Since you are unable to be with them, I can take care of them and you can come pick them up on the next scheduled day, Sunday at 6pm.    

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: serickson01@bellsouth.net [mailto:serickson01@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Monday, March 08, 2004 12:37 AM

 To: david_p@bellsouth.net

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement  

> nevermind i will pick them up and find them a babysitter. I wouldnt want to put you out for a half of day. I will be picking them up before i go to school so please have them ready to go at 6:00 a.m., for i cannot be late. 

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Monday, March 08, 2004 12:48 AM

 To: 'serickson01@bellsouth.net'

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement 

As I said, you are not "putting me out" of anything. I am happy to see the kids as much as I can. However, if you would like to take them on your day, you are free to do so. Since it will be your schedule change and I have made reasonable efforts to accommodate you, I will not be paying for the babysitter. I will have them ready by 6 am as you requested.    

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: serickson01@bellsouth.net [mailto:serickson01@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Monday, March 08, 2004 12:55 AM

 To: david_p@bellsouth.net

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement

 i didnt ask you to pay for the babysitter so dont flatter yourself. >  

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

 From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net]

 Sent: Monday, March 08, 2004 1:03 AM

 To: 'serickson01@bellsouth.net'

 Subject: RE: RE: visitation arrangement 

So it will be coming out of your $700 allowance. Please let me know who the babysitter will be so I can meet him or her. Thank you.   

3/8/04

Mon

David

 

New Schedule by Stacy in effect. David's day with kids. David picks up kids after school, then goes back to work for an hour or so to attend meeting. Stacy calls Dave's work to see if he is there, comes over to house and takes kids in my care. I call Dave. I call police to file a report. Dave goes to pick up the kids, Stacy refuses. Dave calls police. Police call Stacy. Stacy calls Dave irate and irrational.

 

 

 

 

Dave calls police to request check on kids. Police, and Dave go to Stacy's house. Stacy resumes her irrational behavior. Police settles things and Dave gets kids back for the night at 8:30pm. Kids have not had supper nor baths. Zach was not allowed to visit his friend because "Mommy was afraid that Daddy will come and take him away from his friends house".  David has decided to pursue physical custody of the kids. He is done being nice and working around Stacy to see the kids

3/9/04

Tue

Stacy

 

 

3/10/04

Wed

Stacy

 

 

3/11/04

Thu

David

 

Consult with 2nd lawyer, didn't like him. Kids enroll in karate as promised. Kids inform Dave that they were sick so they didn't go to school but they went with Stacy to a lawyer for 3 hours and then went to the police station to pick up a copy of the police report.

3/12/04

Fri

Stacy

No School

Stacy comes to pick kids up at 6:30am. Kids are very sleepy and walk out in their pajamas. Stacy called Dave in 10 minute, saying that the kids have told her that Dave went to see a lawyer. Dave said yes. She had nothing further to say. Stacy's neighbor babysat the kids while Stacy went to school.  Kids wanted to go to Karate class but Stacy had to be on the phone about a job interview so she was unable to take them. When Dave called to check in on them, he noticed that the kids were hesitant and seemed to want to talk about something but as soon as they start to say something, Stacy was listening in and stopped them.

3/13/04

Sat

David

 

Dave went to pick up the kids at 8am. Zach has a birthday party to go on Saturday so Dave stayed in Daytona for the week end. Kids went to first karate class. Dave said they had a great time.

3/14/04

Sun

David daytime, Stacy overnight

 

Kids went to the beach and had a good time. Stacy came to pick up the kids at 6pm. After the kids left Dave remembered that he had forgotten to give her grocery money and gas money. He drove over to drop them off with her. When he got there, she told him that she was no longer going to school because she has had no gas money and the brakes on the Jeep were getting bad. She also requested that he pay for the Jeep another month and he agreed. Dave called Stacy after he got home to find out further why she is not going to school. He apologized that he didn't realize she didn't have gas money. Stacy said she was scared to go to school because the Jeeps brakes are not working. She has already applied to take a couple of weeks off from school. She will be going to school tomorrow to finish the paper work on this. She said "Do you think I am fucking stupid enough to quit school with six months to go?"

 

 

 

 

Kids told Dave that Stacy went to a place to apply for "Emergency something". Dave thinks this is for welfare.

3/15/04

Mon

Stacy

$50 grocery

Stacy found out that she is not allowed to miss any more school. She skipped all last week. So she will be going back to school. Jeep has been repaired at Meneke. Kids went to karate with Stacy. She reported that the classes were running late and kids just sat around and waited for more than 30 minutes. And when their class started, they cut it short to catch up. They only got 15 minutes or so of class. She was unimpressed with the whole thing. "They can do jumping jacks at home'. Tomorrow Dave has lawyer appointment asked Stacy to care for the kids.

3/16/04

Tue

David

 

I asked the kids how karate went yesterday. They both said it was no good and it was boring.

3/17/04

Wed

David

 

Mirrissa said she wanted to quit Karate. Dave asked her why, she didn't explain. Stacy had not sent over her karate jacket and we didn't have time to go get it. When we actually got to karate, she changed her mind and decided to participate. She seemed happy enough. She was excited about getting awards for good practice. Dave checked with the instructor to see if there was a delay in the start time on Monday as reported by Stacy. This turned out to be a complete lie. Instructor said that the latest they may run in starting a class was 10 minutes because they have classes back to back and they won't be able to get away with finishing late. Later we went over to Stacy's to pick up Zach's reading log and Mirrissa's karate jacket. The jacket had some stain remover on it so we took it home and washed it.

3/18/04

Thu

Stacy

 

 

3/19/04

Fri

David

 

Kids got their white belts in karate and were thrilled. Dave made sure they understood that they "earned" their belts.

3/20/04

Sat

Stacy

 

Dave dropped the kids off early with Stacy so he can meet with renters in Lakeland

3/21/04

Sun

Stacy daytime, Dave overnight

$50 grocery, $50 gas

 Stacy was an hour late in bringing kids. She asked Dave "Do you have any money?"  When he said he didn't have any, and asked what for, she replied "I guess I won't be making it back from school tomorrow. I have no gas". Dave thought is strange that she was out of gas money when he had only given her gas card a week ago, but then considered the recent increase in gas prices. Decided to purchase gas card and publix grocery card on his credit card and take it to her house later that evening.  When we all got in to my car, we found the rear passenger side tire was flat. The next day I found that there was a puncture on the side of the tire and had to buy a brand new tire.

 

 

 

 

Stacy met some new friends at beach on Saturday. A couple with two little girls, mother is a beautician and cut Zach's hair, father is a police officer in narcotics. Stacy met them on Saturday then met up with them again on Sunday. Sunday afternoon, they were at Stacy's residence socializing.

3/22/04

Mon

David

 

Dave asked me to brush Mirrissa's hair before bed. We had done this before. However, this time, Mirrissa said "please don't touch my hair". I said, "oh? Why not, did I hurt you?" she replied "My mommy won't like it if you touched me. She told me I shouldn't touch you, ever". I said, "OK, take the brush to your daddy and have him brush it". Later Dave asked Zach if he was forbidden to touch Takako, Zach said no.

3/23/04

Tue

Stacy

 

Dave thought that it might be a good idea if Mirrissa's friend could join her in karate class. He called Rita's father and explained everything and got OK to ask Rita to come to Karate with Mirrissa on Saturday. Stacy called to ask Dave to bring over Karate uniforms for practice on Wednesday. Dave went over to Stacy's place to deliver the uniforms. He caught a leafy grasshopper that was resting on top of the car and decided to give it to Zach. Zach was thrilled with the bug. When he asked Mirrissa if she would like to invite Rita to 'buddy day' at karate, Stacy immediately replied that she had already asked Rita and Rita's parents told her "no". Dave ignored this comment and asked Mirrissa the question again.

 

 

 

 

 Stacy became enraged and said why are you asking Mirrissa when I already told you "no". Dave turned again to Mirrissa and said, "Well, I talked to Rita's parents and they already said "yes" so would you like her to come?" Mirrissa was confused and didn't say anything. Stacy started yelling "if you can't talk to the only adult in this house, you should be leaving!". Dave said goodnight to the kids and left. As he was walking out the door, he heard Zach crying "NO!" and Stacy dumping the bug into the trash can outside.

3/24/04

Wed

Stacy

 

Stacy called Dave at work to get $20 for Zach's new shoes. Dave said he didn't have the money today but can take Zach to get shoes this weekend after he is paid. She said "fine, I will just buy him shoes out of my bill money".  Later we found out that Stacy skipped school so she could do her bills.

 

 

 

 

When Dave calls the kids to tell them good night at 9:20pm, Mirrissa said she has to stay up to do her homework. She said Mommy isn't helping her because she is on the computer all the time. Immediately, Stacy hollered that she was not on the computer and Mirrissa said "no, she is helping me with homework tonight".

 

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net]

Sent: Thursday, March 25, 2004 8:25 AM

To: Stacy Erickson (serickson01@bellsouth.net)

Subject: FW: Summer camp for kids

 

Stacy,

            My mom has enrolled the kids in summer camp. Attached is the information she sent over.

Mirrissa is scheduled for “Mini Camp’ which is like a camp for beginners June 2 to June 5th. Zach’s camp will be from June 6 to June 11th and will be a week long camp. The location of the camp is about 20 miles from Daytona so we can take them to camp together. 

Please review the website and plan on this.

Thanks

 

-----Original Message-----

From: Lilpony001@aol.com [mailto:Lilpony001@aol.com]

Sent: Friday, March 19, 2004 12:48 AM

To: david_p@bellsouth.net

Subject: Re: Summer camp for kids

 

Here is the camp information we talked about. LOVE YOU MOM

3/25/04

Thu

David

 

Stacy drops kids off in the morning to go to school. She asks for $200 so she can pay her bills. She said that she is going to get a job at Speedway and all she is waiting for is some paperwork from corporate office to go through. She said she will pay him back from her first paycheck. During this conversation, Zach said 'Mommy says that karate is a waste of time and money and we shouldn't bother to go' Stacy then went on to explain that yesterdays practice was boring and all the kids did was run around and do stupid things. Dave then turned to the kids and asked if they had fun. The kids got all excited and told him how much fun they had. Dave decides that he is not willing to part with anymore money for Stacy so he contacts his lawyer and requests a letter to be sent on his behalf indicating his intentions.

 

 

 

 

Dave made an appointment with an eyeglass doctor for the kids. Dave and I go pick up the kids from school. When we drive up, Stacy is sitting outside with the kids waiting for Dave. Stacy said she will talk to him in private at the house. We needed to get to the appointment so we continued to the doctor's. She followed us to the doctors. Outside, while the kids and I registered, Dave and Stacy talked. Their demeanor was definitely hostile and could be viewed from inside the doctor's office through glass doors. After a few minutes, Dave walked in and everybody in the office heard Stacy yell "Don't you turn your back on me!!!".

 

 

 

 

 As Dave was talking to the office personnel, Stacy walked in and said she was staying. She stayed during the exam. After the exam, Dave asked her to leave since it was his day with the kids but she refused. Then when kids were picking out their eyeglass frames, she became upset about something Mirrissa said and stormed out of the office. Kids seemed to cheer up significantly after Stacy left. Zach was not enthusiastic about getting glasses and said he wanted to keep his old ones. Dave said he could bring his old ones to get new lenses later. Mirrissa pick out a nice pair that we all agreed looked great on her.Zach had new shoes.

 

 

 

 

Later I found out from Dave that Stacy drove all this way to tell him the kids will not be going to summer camp because she will miss them too much. Then she went on to say why she wasn't included in the decision to take the kids to the eye doctor and the little tramp was asked. At this point, Dave walked away from her.

3/26/04

Fri

Stacy

 

Dave got a call from Stacy around 8:30 am at work. She said "Thanks a lot for not helping me, I missed a test today." Dave wonders if she ran out of gas money. Dave received a copy of the letter the lawyer sent to Stacy

3/27/04

Sat

David

$100 gas

Dave went to pick kids up at 8 am. Kids were waiting in their karate uniforms. Stacy was asleep. She made reference to the letter from the lawyer and told Dave that she doesn't think Dave is paying her $2000 and he is lying to the lawyer. Then she started adding things up but forgot to include the Jeep payments, auto insurance, kids' health insurance, lunch money etc. When reminded, she found that it actually came up to over $2000 as she added it up aloud. Stacy accepted additional gas money. Dave also found out from the kids Stacy told them flat out that they weren't going to camp because she will miss them too much. Kids thought that was a very selfish reason for them not to be able to go to camp. Rita came to karate and everybody had an excellent time.  Dave met with Rita's dad. Later Rita was invited to spend the night and watch movies.

3/28/04

Sun

David daytime, Stacy overnight

 

Stacy came to pick up kids at 6:30pm. She didn't say a single word to anybody.

3/29/04

Mon

Stacy

 

Parenting Class

3/30/04

Tue

David

 

Kids reported that they were unable to go to Karate yesterday. Stacy had to stay home and work on her computer. Mirrissa was totally focused on "getting money" and how hard she was going to work on her chores etc. Zach lost all interest in doing worksheets he said he never wanted to do them again. I said 'OK, you don't have to do them'.  Mirrissa said she couldn't do any homework tonight because it was at her mom's house. and Zach both said he didn't have any homework this week. Dave called Stacy to ask if it would be OK to drop by to pick up the kids karate uniforms and homework. Stacy consented. Dave drove over and Stacy informed him that she spoke to Mr Rice. She also accused Dave for leaving the kids with Takako while he came over.

 

 

 

 

 Later, Dave found out that Mirrissa had not turned in her homework last week. Dave knew for a fact that homework was finished on Thursday night. He had actually had Mirrissa redo the sloppy work finished at her mothers. Mirrissa also did not have her homework from yesterday done either.  At bedtime, when Dave told Mirrissa to bring over her hair brush so he could brush it she said "don't do it like Takako does it". Dave asked how that was but she just repeated the statement. Zach said that Stacy threw away all the little sponge bugs that we thawed out from pill form with hot water the previous day. Zach said she doesn't like anything Takako bought.

3/31/04

Wed

David

 

Kids said they both don't want to go to karate anymore. Dave and I said they didn't have to but we were going to go watch. Then Mirrissa said she will go, so Zach agreed to go grudgingly. Telephone conference with Mr. Rice regarding Stacy's conversation with him.