Documentation June 2004
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Odd numbers are David,
Even numbers are Stacy Babysitter 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15
16 17 18 19 20 Camp 1 2
3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18
19 20 Karate 1 2
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8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 Stacy 1 2
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11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 Mirrissa 1 2
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7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 Zach 1 2
3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 Police 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
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Tue |
STACY |
Dave vacation Stacy’s day off from work
and Kids with Stacy |
Dave called Stacy in the morning to
ask if he could see the kids. She said she didn't know and put the kids on
the phone. They were excited that they were going to go to Nova community
park where there is a skating ramp.
Around 5 in the evening, Dave
called Stacy to see if she is willing to let them spend the night or if
he could see them tomorrow. Stacy argued but finally agreed to
let him have the kids tomorrow. Dave called back asking if it would be ok to
bring over the June support check and see the kids for a few minutes. She
called back sometime past seven and threatened that he should not bring
anybody else over and he could see the kids in the yard but that was as far
as it can go. When he showed up, Stacy said a few warnings about staying in
the yard and went inside. Kids said that they went over to their friends’
house at 8 in the morning but the neigbors were
upset that they came over so early and told them their friend cannot play all
day because of it. They did not go to the park as they had hoped and they
were not over at their friends’ house when Stacy said that
was the reason they couldn't sleep over at daddy's place. |
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Dave and Takako ran
errands. Mirrissa's eye glasses got stepped on so
we took it to get it fixed. Mirrissa set it down on the first step on the
stairs and Dave had stepped on it. We
went to HH police department to pick up the most recent police report. We
went to IRS to discuss claiming dependents. The recommended Dave to file by
paper and then there will be an audit to straighten things out. We stopped by
the 'child care referral' baby sitter Michelle, and looked
around her place. Michelle clearly said she was just a daycare place with no
affiliation with DCF other than to get her license. There were no evaluations
requested nor did she do anything with the DCF. Stacy was obtaining
assistance from United child care services and receiving a 12 dollar discount
on the weekly rate. Contrary to Stacy's claim, Michelle said the kids were
free to show up when needed and that she was always available. Michelle
offered to drop them off to school but said she would not be able to pick
them up from school because Pine Trail was too far when she had other schools
she needed to pick kids up from. Stacy had told Michelle that
they would be going to Holly Hill elementary next year and that Dave can
visit the kids but cannot pick them up from day care. |
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We visited the day camp at Pine Trail and
found it to be lacking adult supervision. There we spoke to Ruth in great
length about the situation and how we could do better for the kids. Stacy had
come in often to speak to Ruth. Ruth said she would talk about everything
with her even though the kids were right there with her in the room. Stacy told Ruth that she went to legal aid five or six times even
though she told Dave three times. Ruth suspected legal aid didn't take her
case because she had not case or that she hadn't actually gone to see them.
Ruth said that she didn't want to talk to Stacy and she would usually just
get up and leave. Ruth said that Stacy herself had told her about the support
Dave is providing for her and the kids and she didn't know why Stacy would
bite the hand that feeds her. Ruth had good things to say about Zach and
Mirrissa. She also mentioned how her son had difficulty with an ex. Ruth did
not think the Volusia county day camp at Pine Trail would be suitable for
Mirrissa because she needs close supervision. She recommended the 'extended
day care' which is also held at the school. She said her grand daughter will
attend. Ruth thought it was funny that Stacy was objecting to the
domestication of the orders which she insisted on so strongly. |
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Wed |
STACY |
Dave vacation |
Kids were dropped off
around |
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Thu |
STACY |
Dave vacation |
It was a rainy day and Zach played with the neigbors nephews
all day. Their grandmother Joann was there watching them all over the porch.
Kids fished, skateboarded and played miniature golf. Dave tried calling Stacy
a couple of times but there was no answer. Stacy told the judge yesterday
that she has an appointment with her lawyer at |
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Fri |
STACY, DAVID AT |
Dave vacation |
Stacy called to ask where Zach
was. Dave said he went shopping with the neighbors. Although she didn't
mention a visit, Stacy showed up at the house shortly after and demanded to
know where Zach was. Dave repeated his answer. She mentioned that she knew
about the PI and all the lies her former neighbors were telling on her. Dave
said he would hope those things are lies. She repeated the
same accusations and complaints. She stormed off yelling that she is going
home and calling the lawyer and Dave will be hearing from him. After she got
into the truck, she yelled out that she was going to call DCF and that he
will be hearing from them too. Zach left a message for Stacy to tell her good
night. |
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Sat |
DAVID |
David |
After picking Mirrissa
up from camp, Dave and the kids went to Takako's
house. Carey from across the street came over and spent the night. Kids
played till late into the evening. Zach and Mirrissa called Stacy and spoke
to her on the phone to say good night. |
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Sun |
DAVID, STACY AT 6PM |
as scheduled |
Kids continued to play
with Carey and we all went to McDonald's for breakfast. Around 2:30 in the
afternoon, we all headed back to Daytona. We stopped at the Dollar Tree to
pick up some stuff for Zach that Mirrissa had broken over the weekend. When
we got back to the house, Dave had Zach call Stacy and ask if they should
have dinner with her or not. She did not reply till 5:30 so we were already
eating pizza when Stacy called back to say "kids are eating with me". Mirrissa sifted through her
photographs and pulled out the ones that Mommy would throw away. (the ones
with Takako in them). She also took off her camp necklace that has one bead
for each camp she attends. She spoke of it proudly to Dave and how she gets
one for each year she comes to camp. When Dave dropped them off, Stacy said NO they are not going to karate, they are going to the
babysitters. When Dave called to say goodnight to the kids, Stacy refused and
accused him that he had such "nerve calling here when he kept the kids
from her five days". David tried to call several additional times but
Stacy said that she was on the phone and refused to let Dave speak to the
kids. |
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Mon |
STACY |
Stacy |
Dave called Michelle
in the morning and found out that Stacy forbid her from taking the kids to
Karate Camp. Stacy said the kids were in the shower when Dave called at a |
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Tue |
STACY |
Stacy |
Dave and Takako went to
speak to Michelle to update her on the situation. Michelle said Stacy
told her, the kids were taken away to foster care previously. Stacy said that
Dave is responsible for payment even though she accused Dave for meddling
with her babysitter and forbid him from paying Michelle. Stacy told Michelle
that Dave was withholding the kids and that is why they won't be at
Michelle's last week. Dave called several times to speak to the kids. When
Stacy finally called back, she accused him of harassing her every 15 minutes.
Zach talked to Dave but Mirrissa refused saying that she was watching Beauty
and the Beast on the new DVD player Stacy had purchased. Stacy later agreed
to Karate camp for the kids and said she will speak to
Michelle tomorrow. She also said Dave "owed Michelle for last
week". Dave told her he already paid her. |
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Wed |
STACY |
Stacy |
Stacy did not tell
Michelle about Karate camp. When Michelle contacted Stacy, Stacy asked to ask
the kids if they wanted to go. Kids shook their heads no. Michelle called
Dave to let him know kids didn't want to go. Stacy called and laughed and
said "see kids didn't want to go anyway". Dave called Zach to say
it is OK if he doesn't want to go just to let him know. When Dave asked to
speak to Mirrissa, she said she didn't want to talk to daddy. Michelle called shortly after to say that
Zach called his mom to ask if he could go. But Stacy said "I don't know".
Michelle decided not to take them today but told the kids she will be happy
to take them anywhere they wanted. Michelle said Zach started crying saying
he wanted to go to karate. Michelle mentioned Mirrissa's
interest in twirling camp. Takako told her that Dave wanted Mirrissa in it
but Stacy refused and if Michelle can convince Stacy, it would be great.
Takako called Michelle and asked if it would be alright to bring the children
a watermelon to eat. Michelle said yes. Takako went over to
the babysitters at |
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Thu |
STACY |
Stacy |
Kids went to the
babysitter and Stacy told Michelle that they were not allowed to go to Karate camp. Dave tried to reach the kids between |
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Fri |
STACY |
Stacy |
Kid did not got to karate
camp. Dave went to Takako's house after work. Dave
called to speak to the kids but Stacy was on the phone. At |
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Sat |
STACY |
Stacy |
Dave called the kids left
voice mail. Shortly afterwards Zach called back. He said that grandma in |
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Sun |
STACY |
Stacy |
Kids left a message on
Dave's house phone and cell phone to say goodnight. Dave's cell phone's battery
was dead and couldn't receive calls. They also said they will be able to see
daddy some time this week. Dave spoke with his mom. she said she called the
kids at Stacy's. She spoke with Zach only because Mirrissa didn't want to
talk to her. Stacy also talked to her at length about her troubles including Mirrissa's camp. Stacy said Dave wouldn't talk to her
anymore which was one of the many problems. |
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Mon |
STACY |
Stacy |
Dave called Stacy to ask
if she is taking the kids to karate practice. She said she
didn't have their uniforms so she can't take them. Dave said he can drop them
off or she can come here to get it. They agreed to meet at Karate before
practice time. Shortly after, Mirrissa called saying she didn't want to go to
karate. Dave reminded her of their discussion about continuing karate and she
grudgingly agreed to go. Zach got on the phone and said he didn't want to go
today. When asked if he wants to quit he said he didn't want to go today
only. Eventually he was persuaded to go. Dave met up with the kids before
karate and they had a good practice session. Mr Halpin asked Stacy to speak to him after class but he was
unavailable after 20 minutes of waiting so Stacy left with the kids saying
she will bring them to practice on Wednesday and she can talk to Mr. Halpin then. Stacy agreed to let the kids see Dave on
Wednesday. When Dave said he will be over at |
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Tue |
STACY |
Stacy |
Stacy called Dave at work
and at home. When Dave got off of work, he called her back. Stacy
had an issue with the child support check amount for the month of June. Stacy
said Dave did not give her money to repair the truck nor money for the car
insurance as he promised. Dave reminded her that it was included in the
check. Stacy said he is supposed to pay her 154 per child according to the WA
orders. When Dave pointed out that the document doesn't say that, she told
him that he would not be seeing the kids on Wednesday. Dave called later to
ask to speak to the kids. Shortly after he was able to speak to both
children. |
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Wed |
STACY |
David at |
Court date to domesticate
the WA order. Stacy was there with her lawyer. After court, she volunteered that
the kids will see him that night. She also volunteered that Zach will go to
his camp. Dave picked up the kids at |
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Thu |
STACY |
Stacy |
Dave dropped off the kids at
the babysitters. When Dave asked if he could have the kids tonight but Stacy
said no. |
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Fri |
STACY, DAVID AT |
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Dave went to pickup the
kids after work at |
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Sat |
DAVID |
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Kids went to karate
practice then we went to Takako's house. When we
got there, we decided to go to her friends house to swim in their pool. We
spent all after |
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Mirrissa told
Takako that mommy told her if somebody hits her, she needs to hit them back.
When Takako said, hmm I don't agree with that.. Mirrissa said she didn't
agree with it either and that you should tell somebody if somebody hits you.
Takako said, well you should probably find out why that other person hit you
first before doing anything. Later Mirrissa and I were reading a book. When
she read the passage written "I wanted to tickle the gold fish but Mom
said "Leave the goldfish alone", she said instead, "Leave the
fucking goldfish alone". Realizing what she said, she covered her mouth
and whispered the last part. The book was about a boy who was mad because he
couldn't do anything he wanted to. Mirrissa was convinced that the boy was
going to get a spanking and yelled at at each turn
and seemed surprised when the story did not turn that way. It made me
remember the time she dropped an egg on the floor and cried "I'm sorry
it was an accident" and cowered on the floor as if she was going to be
hit. |
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Father's day. Takako took
the kids to Wal-Mart to pick out a
gift while Dave slept. They chose a shaved ice maker and we bought some
syrup. Kids called Stacy to ask if they could spend the night with Dave but
Stacy said no. Dave delivered the kids as scheduled. |
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Mon |
STACY |
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Dave called at |
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Tue |
STACY |
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Dave called the kids at |
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Wed |
STACY |
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Dave called after he got off of work
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Thu |
STACY |
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Dolly called Dave asking
for Stacy's phone number so she could wish Zach happy birthday. Dolly said a
couple of weeks ago, Mirrissa called her. Doly
felt that Stacy put her up to it because Mirrissa whined and whined about how
she misses Dolly and when will she be able to visit. Mirrissa would not
change the subject and after a while, Dolly asked to speak with Stacy. They
talked for a while and Dolly got angry at Stacy for lying to her about
various things including camp. So Dolly asked to speak to Zach and asked him
if he wanted to go to camp. Zach said yes. Dolly talked to him a while and
ended the conversation. Dave called at |
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Fri |
STACY |
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Stacy was not home when
Dave called her at the appointed time |
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Sat |
STACY |
Dave babysat while Stacy
worked |
Stacy dropped off the
kids. Kids went back to sleep until Karate. After karate, they went to rent
movies and went to Wal-Mart to get more syrup for the shaved ice maker. At |
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Sun |
STACY |
Dave babysat while Stacy
worked |
Stacy packed some things
for Zach to take to camp and dropped both of them off in the morning.
Dave spent the morning going over the camp details and making sure he had
everything in the checklist. When it was time, they left in the Jeep and met
Stacy halfway down the street. Stacy bought Zach a camera and two rolls of
film when Zach asked her if she had bought the film for the camera he already
had like she promised. At first she said she was going to bring it over
tomorrow but then she changed her mind and bought him a new camera at the
camp store. Dave reminded Stacy about the bunk notes and the ten dollars she
has in the account. Stacy said she never got anything like that. Dave asked
if Mirrissa could spend the night but Stacy said no. Dave asked if she had a
schedule in mind, so Stacy said Tuesday and Wednesday and that
she had already written an e-mail about it. She also accused him for the
unreliability of e-mails and implied that he was somehow responsible for her
not getting e-mails. Dave did not get any e-mail even though he checked it
before he left. So Dave left alone after Zach was settled in to his cabin. |
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-----Original Message----- From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net] Sent: To: Stacy Erickson (serickson01@bellsouth.net) Subject: Your Email Importance: High It seem your email has slipped through the cracks. Will
you please send it again? |
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Mon |
STACY |
Stacy |
Dave left a message with
Stacy at |
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Stacy previously said Dave
will have the kids on Tuesday and Wednesday but she failed to e-mail or tell
him specifically what that meant. Later in the evening, Stacy called back,
said Mirrissa was already in bed. Dave asked her what the plan was for
tomorrow. Stacy said he could come pick up Mirrissa after work and Stacy will pick Mirrissa up in the morning to take her to the
babysitter. Stacy asked if he would get off of work at six. Dave said he
didn't know because tomorrow was his long day at work. She sarcastically said
"Well I kind of need to know Dave". She went on to say, "well
if its at eight, you better just forget about it because I have to get her
ready for bed". Dave after thinking his work schedule over, decided to
take the day off the next day to spend the day with Mirrissa.
He called Stacy back to let her know of his plans and asked her if she would
bring Mirrissa over on her way to work. Stacy said that Mirrissa needs to go
to the babysitter and he can have her after work and refused to let him have
Mirrissa any earlier. Dave said that he will be happy to speak to Michelle so
that Stacy does not lose her financial assistance. Stacy grew angry and said
he has no business contacting Michelle because it was HER babysitter and to
quit meddling with her life. Dave called Michelle the baby
sitter to ask what the situation was regarding the financial aid and
attendance record for Stacy and said that he would be coming over with Stacy
in the morning to pick up Mirrissa. Michelle welcomed this and said that as
long as the absences were excused it didn't matter. |
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-----Original Message----- From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net] Sent: To: Stacy Erickson (serickson01@bellsouth.net) Subject: Current parenting schedule 6/28 I have yet to receive any email from you about the schedule or anything else. I gather from our conversations that I can have the kids on Tuesday Wednesday and Thursday of each week plus every other weekend. I will expect you to drop the kids off to me on your way to work on Tuesday morning and I will deliver the kids to the babysitter on Friday morning. This schedule will continue until the kids’ school is in session. We can work on the school schedule when it gets closer. I would appreciate a reply but I will take no reply as a yes.
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STACY |
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Dave met up with Stacy at
Michelle’s but Stacy refused to let Mirrissa go with Dave.
Her reason was that Mirrissa needs to go to the babysitter. Stacy indicated
that she was tired of the harassment she is receiving from Dave and that
Mirrissa was hers and hers only. Stacy said that she can do anything she
wanted with Mirrissa because she is her mother and Dave has no right to take
her from the babysitter. Stacy calmly indicated that if he persisted, she was
going to make sure that the kids won't have to suffer through this and she
was going to take action. Dave clearly thought this indicated that Stacy was
going to take the kids away and hide or that she is going to harm them so she
does not have to share them with him. Dave asked if Stacy thinks that it
would be better for Mirrissa to be at the babysitter rather
than with her father. Stacy said yes and indicated that Mirrissa would be
better served without her father because of the harassment Stacy has to
endure. |
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Met with Mr. Halpin at Karate. He said that he spoke to
the kids and Stacy for about 20 minutes. He reported that Stacy said the kids
didn't want to go to karate and that is why they haven't been attending. He
said he emphasized the importance for everybody in the family to be on the
same page and how goals can be achieved. We thanked him for his time and
left. Mirrissa called while we were speaking to Mr. Halpin proximately |
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When Dave returned home,
there were five voice messages from Mirrissa asking when
Dave was coming to pick her up whether it was going to be at six or eight. Mirrissa
said that if it turns out to be eight, she will already be in bed. Decision was made to back
off from trying to work out a schedule with Stacy. Dave thinks Stacy is too
unstable to be negotiated with and he is afraid that she will really hurt the
kids or take them away if he persists. An e-mail to that effect was sent to
Stacy. Dave decides to record all conversations with Stacy and let her know
from the start that all conversations will be recorded. |
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-----Original Message----- From: serickson01@bellsouth.net [mailto:serickson01@bellsouth.net] Sent: To: Subject: Re: Current parenting schedule 6/28 > i dont know where you got thursday from i didnt say anything about > thursday. And the kids will go to the daycare provider everyday. -----Original Message----- From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net] Sent: To: 'serickson01@bellsouth.net' Subject: RE: Current parenting schedule 6/28 Whatever you say. Just let me know when you want me to
have the kids. Otherwise I will just pick them up according to the visitation
schedule from WA. I just want you to stay calm and in control of yourself. I
have decided to abandon my efforts to work out a schedule with you for now. I
am going to back off and wait for the courts to decide. I will call once
every night at Dave. |
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STACY |
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Mirrissa left three voice
mails asking when Daddy will come pick her up. Stacy wrote an e-mail asking the
same thing. Dave wrote back asking if he could have Mirrissa tomorrow after
work. Stacy never replied about it. She called to say that she had the day
off but Mirrissa wanted to go to the babysitter
and she took her there. Stacy was happy that Mirrissa had a friend. Stacy
insisted that day care was best for the children over day camp. |
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-----Original Message----- From: serickson01@bellsouth.net [mailto:serickson01@bellsouth.net] Sent: To: Subject: Re: RE: Current parenting schedule 6/28 > Dave, I am trying to communicate with you, but i am really tired of you telling me that i need to be an responsible adult. I have been nothing
but a responsible adult and parent. I told you that you could pick Mirrissa
up after you got off of work yesterday. And that you can have them on Tuesday
and Wednesday until school starts and then you will also have them on your
scheduled weekend. But for you to tell Mirrissa last night that i told you that you couldnt
come and get her and that you could only talk to her on the phone that is
just wrong. I never said that you couldnt come and
get her. She sat here from Thank you Stacy |
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-----Original Message----- From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net] Sent: To: 'serickson01@bellsouth.net' Subject: RE: RE: Current parenting schedule 6/28 Stacy, I have to work today until 8 so I am sure you will agree that I can not pick her up. I was hoping I could pick her up tomorrow from the babysitter after work then keep her over night Thursday and spend the day Friday with her and pick up Zachary from camp Friday evening at 6. Let me know if this will be acceptable. Thanks David Prather |
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-----Original Message----- From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net] Sent: To: Stacy Erickson (serickson01@bellsouth.net) Subject: FW: RE: Current parenting schedule 6/28 Let me know if this is OK with you. Dave -----Original Message----- From: david_p@bellsouth.net [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net] Sent: To: Stacy Erickson (serickson01@bellsouth.net) Subject: FW: RE: Current parenting schedule 6/28 Hello, Since you haven't replied I guess I will have to assume no. I will go pick up Mirrissa from the babysitter at Dave. |
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-----Original Message----- From: serickson01@bellsouth.net [mailto:serickson01@bellsouth.net] Sent: To: Subject: Re: FW: RE: Current parenting schedule 6/28 > Excuse me but i havnt been online since this morning to check my e-mail so you need to start being a little bit more patient. And yes you may pick Mirrissa up on Friday at 2 from the daycare provider. Mirrissa has been sitting here for the last two nights now waiting for daddy to come and pick her up and you dont sh ow up, so no i am not going to tell her 3 days in a row that daddy is going to come and get her and then you dont show again. So i think it is just best that you pick her up on Friday. Then we will try it again next week on Tuesday and Wednesday and see how it goes. And as for our phone conversations i do not give permission for you to record the conversations. |