E-mails September 2003

 

 

SEPTEMBER 8, 2003

 

-----Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Monday, September 08, 2003 9:05 AM

To: 'David_prather1@msn.com'

Subject: Please don't just delete. Please listen to me.

Importance: High

  Hello, Hope you had a good day at work. I didn't write this to lecture you.  You always say something negative to what ever it is I do. I am either  nagging you or invading your privacy, or now it is lecturing you. You know  awhile back you said that you needed a friend that you could talk to about  anything. Well I need that too. You keep saying how I don't need you, well  I do. I know I have said it before but I don't have anyone. You told our  daughter last night that I needed to grow up. I didn't appreciate that. You  always some how turn it all back on me. It is not all me. You keep saying  how your tired of hearing about it. But I am tired of being the one who is  shoved aside. You will never ever know how much I hurt, until the day that  it happens to you. I am so tired of being told that I am stupid, or I don't  have a brain, or that I am fucked of in the head, or that I am no good. I  use to think that you were different

 From everyone else, but here lately  you are not. I work so hard at trying to make you proud and to show you  that you are wrong about me, but little by little you make feel like my  accomplishments that I have made don't mean anything. You hurt me so bad  when you said that I was just like my family, but it is you that are acting  just like my family, those things you keep saying about me, I have heard my  whole life

 From them. You keep saying how you want me to be happy, you are  the one person in my life who has made me happy besides our children. And  you can't even see that. All you see is her. Maybe one of these days when  all of your anger is directed at the right person maybe you will see me for  the person that I am which is a very nice, loving, caring and fun to be  around or maybe you wont ever see that I don't know anymore. I thought by  you taking this new job that it would be good for us and be good for our  family that we both deserve, I thought that you would miss us after being  away

 From us all week and you did for the first couple weeks or so you say  you did.   

 

SEPTEMBER 25, 2003

-----Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Thursday, September 25, 2003 11:48 AM

To: 'DavidP@tampabay.rr.com'

Subject: our conversation last night

Importance: High

 Dave about our conversation last night. I wasn't trying to be a Queen, I am  just trying to take care of our children. When they get upset and are  crying I have a right to know why, as do you. I said it once before and I  will say it again I do not tell our kids what to say to you or what not to  say. That is one thing I have never done is to make them hate you and I  never will. Maybe one of these days you can let go of all your anger that  you have for me and see that, or maybe you wont I don't know. It seems like  anymore you can't talk to me with out yelling at me even if I am not  ragging on you as you put it.   

 

OCTOBER 6, 2003

-----Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Monday, October 06, 2003 3:56 AM

To: 'DavidP@tampabay.rr.com'

Cc: 'David_Prather1@msn.com'

Subject:

  I am so sorry. I am not trying to dredge things up. I just wanted my family  back. If you don't like me I guess there isn't anything I can do about  that. I guess you and your girlfriend got exactly what she wanted all  along, for you to be rid of me. Thank you for the 10 years that I did have  my family. Maybe one of these days you can look back and see that all I  wanted is for my family to be back together.  Good-bye  

 

OCTOBER 23, 2003

-----Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 9:04 PM

To: 'DavidP@tampabay.rr.com'

Subject:

 

 I David Prather (Father) will continue to pay separate housing costs in which Zachary Prather, Mirrissa Prather and Stacy Erickson (Mother) will reside.  David Prather (Father) will also continue to help pay the costs and gas for 1999 Jeep Cherokee which is the only form of transportation back and forth to school, and to get to and

 From work(is also only form of transportation for said children). Until which time Stacy Erickson (Mother) is finished with school and can find full-time employment. At this time David Prather (Father) and Stacy Erickson (Mother) will sit down and discuss and agree upon child support for Zachary Prather and Mirrissa Prather.  I Stacy Erickson agree to find part-time employment to contribute to the costs until which time that I am finished with school.

Visitation is as follows: Monday: Tuesday: Wednesday: Thursday: Friday: Saturday: Sunday:   

 

NOVEMBER 4, 2003

-----Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Tuesday, November 04, 2003 11:14 AM

To: 'davidP@tampabay.rr.com'

Subject:

   Dave I would rather not send this in an e-mail until we have either  discussed it over the telephone or in person because when I ask you to send  me copies of stuff that you have already written you never send it to me.  There are also other things I want to discuss. For one the promise you made  me 3 months ago. I have kept every promise that I have made to you. But you  have not kept any promises that you made to me. Our family is worth  fighting for after 10 years almost 11 years. You need to start remembering  all the good times, I can describe detail for detail and you say that you  don't remember.  Stacy 

 

NOVEMBER 11, 2003

-----Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Tuesday, November 11, 2003 5:41 PM

To: 'DavidP@tampabay.rr.com'

Subject: Friday night

  Hello, hope you had a good day. I am inviting you to come here on Friday  night again, I really enjoyed having you here when I woke up Saturday  morning. I believe we had a really good weekend and could be a start of  many good ones to come. I hope that you will say yes to my invitation.  I love you Stacy  --

 

NOVEMBER 12, 2003

-----Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Wednesday, November 12, 2003 5:09 AM

To: 'DavidP@tampabay.rr.com'

Subject: E-mail

 Hi, I  Sent you an e-mail, it was not nasty or anything. It just would have been nice if you would have replied to it. 

Stacy

 

---Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Wednesday, November 12, 2003 8:42 PM

To: 'DavidP@tampabay.rr.com'

Subject:

 

  I do think that it is a good idea. We had a very good weekend. And I want  it to continue. No matter what you seem to think I think we are good  together. You admitted that I made you happy this weekend. So why all of a  sudden again are you going to start shutting me out. I love you and you  know it, I am going to continue to show you that. You said this weekend  over and over that you care to me that is a good start at rebuilding our  future together. And you can say it all you want, but you said you don't  know what the future holds for us but I do. And I am not going to give up  on you. You are everything to me. If you would just get to know mw like you  did this weekend I know that you will change your mind about us.  I love you 

 

-----Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Wednesday, November 12, 2003 8:45 PM

To: 'DavidP@tampabay.rr.com'

Subject:

  And if you can't come here this weekend then the kids and I would love to  get away

 From here for the weekend come spend some time with you. Maybe we  could go to the beach and do a few other things  

 

NOVEMBER 26, 2003

-----Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Wednesday, November 26, 2003 9:04 PM

To: 'davidp@tampabay.rr.com'

Subject

 

   Hope your going to be hungry tomorrow. Seems how you wont come here for  thanksgiving. We are going to bring thanksgiving to you. And we have a  surprise for you also. So we will see you around 1 or 2.  Stacy 

 

-----Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Wednesday, November 26, 2003 10:12 PM

To: 'DavidP@tampabay.rr.com'

Subject:

  I am so sorry that I have intruded on your little life that you have made  for yourself. I cant believe I was so stupid in believing that you wanted  to be my friend, but I guess it is only good enough to be my friend when  she is not around. That really makes me feel great. But of course I guess  that is how you really feel. So much for every thing that we talked about  the last couple of weeks. Thanks for the great holiday, I guess the only  real family that I have are our children. You don't have to worry about me  calling tomorrow or even coming over there like I had planned. I guess you  can just get all the stuff I cooked for you this weekend on the way to her  house. I have never been that cruel to you in the 11 years I have known  you.  Thanks Hope you have a great evening.