E-mails December 2003

 

 

Version on Nov 16th 2003

Description

ASSETS

LIABILITIES

OTHER

 

 

 

 

House

 

The house at 6949 Dove Cross Loop belongs to David. The house will be rented by February 1, 2004. Stacy must find a place to live by January 15th, 2004.

 

Vehicles

1991 Ford Ranger - Paid for and will stay in the possession of David. This vehicle is to be put into David's name only as soon as the Jeep is paid for.

JEEP-1999 Grand Cherokee - David will continue to make payments on the vehicle until paid off. At that time the vehicle will be put in Stacy's name only.

 

Auto Insurance

Auto insurance will continue to be paid for by David. No change to the coverage should be made at this time.

 

Joint Checking Account

The checking account will stay in place as a means for Stacy to provide food and care for the kids.

 

Televisions

27"-Toshiba - Stacy's, 25" Zenith-David's., Panasonic DVD Player with Surround Sound - David's.

 

 

Computers

Dell-Stays with David. David will buy a new Dell to replace it by 6/1/2004. 500mhz Emachine. - Zachary's, 500mhz Toshiba - Mirrissa's.

 

 

Kitchen Wares

All Stacy's

 

 

Dining Room

Table, Chair's all Stacy's

 

 

Bed Room

David will keep the dresser. The rest of the bedroom furniture belongs to Stacy. Including the Bed, Dresser, end table and the workout machine.

 

 

Loan's, Bill's

 

$10,000 dollar's to the Kids. David agrees to make payments to this to the sum of $5000. Furthermore if the loan is still outstanding at the time the $5000 is repaid David will continue to help Stacy make payment to see that the kids are re-paid their money.

 

Children

Joint custody of the children is understood and agreed upon by both parents. The children will reside primarily with both parents. Time and Schedule will be determined and agreed upon by both parents as time goes on. David will provide medical coverage though his employer for the children. Neither David or Stacy can threaten to take the kids away or use them for an excuse for any reason.

 

Other

David will help pay for a place for Stacy to live until such time as she is able to pay for her-self or until September 1, 2004 whichever comes first.

 

Outdoors

The Lawn mower will stay with David. The rest of the tools in the shed will be dispersed as needed.

The pool is Stacy's. She is responsible for all financial responsibility for the pool.

 

Laundry Room

The Freezer, Washer and Dryer belong to Stacy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

DECEMBER 16, 2003

-----Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Tuesday, December 16, 2003 10:55 PM

To: 'David Prather'

Subject: RE: School for kids

  I don't know if I am going to be there at 9:30 it all depends on if we agree on this paper tonight because I am not enrolling the children in  school until this is settled first.   

 

DECEMBER 17, 2003

 

----Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Wednesday, December 17, 2003 1:58 AM

To: 'David Prather'

Subject: RE:

Monday                 Dave                      

Tuesday                                Stacy                     

Wednesday                          Dave                      

Thursday                               Stacy                      And if there are any days of the week that need to be changed then at that time we will sit down and discuss it like two adults without slinging nasty names or accusations back and forth.

Friday                     Dave                      

Saturday                                Stacy                     

Sunday                  will alternate every week.                     

Holidays                                                               

Thanksgiving                       we will discuss these holidays when they come around.                             

 Valentines Day                                                   

Easter                                                    

Christmas                                                             

 

 

Version on Dec 17th 2003

Description

ASSETS

LIABILITIES

OTHER

 

 

 

 

Joint Checking Account

The checking account will stay in place as a means for Stacy to provide food and care for the kids.

 

 

David will help pay for a place for Stacy to live until such time as she is able to pay for her-self or until September 1, 2004 whichever comes first.

Starting February 2004, David will supply Stacy with personal living expenses in the amount of $700 per month to pay for rent, utility and groceries, food for herself. This money is for Stacy's needs exclusively. Additional fuel money will be provided with a receipt. This support will continue until September 1, 2004.

 

 

 

Additional funds will be available for children's needs with a receipt. This includes all childrens food, clothing, school supplies and transportation. This will continue until children graduate from High School.

 

 

 

Stacy's relocation funds to not exceed $2000 dollars including moving, utility and housing applications, and fist month rent.

Children

Joint custody of the children is understood and agreed upon by both parents. The children will reside primarily with both parents. Time and Schedule will be determined and agreed upon by both parents as time goes on. David will provide medical coverage though his employer for the children. Neither David or Stacy can threaten to take the kids away or use them for an excuse for any reason.

Physical custody of the children will be split equally with 64 hours per parent per week with alternating Saturdays. (See attached Schedule).  The childrens wishes for whom the want to stay will be considered.

 

 

 

Saturday's to be determined based on schedule availability of both parents. Weekend nights and Sunday are to be with Stacy. Long term school vacation arrangements to be determined upon agreement by both parents.

 

 

 

Child care between the time school lets out to will be provided by Stacy if work schedule permits. If Stacy's work schedule does not permit this, alternative child care to be provided by David.

 

 

 

After school child care includes carpooling to any after school activities, preparation of the evening meal, academic supervision and getting the children ready for bed. Costs associated with these activities to be provided by David with a recipt. Children's bedtime will be 9:00 pm on all school nights and children are expected to be in bed at this time regardless of the caregiver.

House

 

The house at 6949 Dove Cross Loop belongs to David. The house will be rented by February 1, 2004. Stacy must find a place to live by January 15th, 2004.

Mortgage, insurance and payment of all associated costs, maintenance and management of property and renters will be the sole responsibility of David.

Vehicles

1991 Ford Ranger - Paid for and will stay in the possession of David. This vehicle is to be put into David's name only as soon as the Jeep is paid for.

JEEP-1999 Grand Cherokee - David will continue to make payments on the vehicle until paid off. At that time the vehicle will be put in Stacy's name only.

Vehicle maintenance costs for the Jeep will be paid by David until September 1 2004.

Auto Insurance

Auto insurance will continue to be paid for by David. No change to the coverage should be made at this time.

Starting September 1 2004 Stacy will be responsible for providing auto insurance coverage for herself.

Loan's, Bill's

 

$10,000 dollar's to the Kids. David agrees to make payments to this to the sum of $5000. Furthermore if the loan is still outstanding at the time the $5000 is repaid David will continue to help Stacy make payment to see that the kids are re-paid their money.

 

Outdoors

The Lawn mower will stay with David. The rest of the tools in the shed will be dispersed as needed.

The pool is Stacy's. She is responsible for all financial responsibility for the pool.

 

Laundry Room

The Freezer, Washer and Dryer belong to Stacy.

 

 

Pets

Bird and cat will reside with Stacy. Dog with reside with Stacy if living quarters permit, otherwise reside with David.

 

 

Televisions

 25" Zenith-David's., Panasonic DVD Player with Surround Sound - David's.

27"-Toshiba  and entertainment center housed is Stacy's,

 

Computers

Dell-Stays with David. David will buy a new Dell to replace it by 6/1/2004.

 500mhz Emachine. - Zachary's, 500mhz Toshiba - Mirrissa's.

David will compensate Stacy in the amount of $2000 by 6/1/2004 for the Dell computer taken posession by David.

Kitchen Wares

All Stacy's

 

 

Dining Room

Table, Chair's all Stacy's

 

 

Bed Room

David will keep the dresser. The rest of the bedroom furniture belongs to Stacy. Including the Bed, Dresser, end table and the workout machine.

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----

From: David Prather [mailto:david_p@bellsouth.net]

Sent: Wednesday, December 17, 2003 12:42 AM

To: Stacy Erickson

Subject:

Importance: High

  Stacy, I read your changes and reworked the agreement based on it.  However, I do no believe we should let the children decide who they want to be with until they are at least teenagers. Kids need both their mother and father.  I understand that you want to be with the kids as much as I do. I was perhaps unfair in my original agreement so I have changed it so that we both get equal amount of time with the kids.  As I have said before, what I really want out of this agreement is a chance for me to raise the kids, look after their daily needs like getting up and ready for school etc. I fee that I have unfairly pushed that responsibility on to you while just taking the fun play times with them on the weekends for the last 11 years. Because I work 9 to 6 each day, you will have to take care of the kids after school. (This may cause you some problems when looking for a job and arranging a schedule. If this happens we will discuss it. )  That leaves me with two hours before they go to bed and an hour before school and work.  I have no intention of “taking the kids away” and I want you to feel assured that you will get as many hours with the kids as I do. Actually, based on the proposed schedule, you will be getting more waking hours with the kids that I will ever get. I am fine with that but I would at least like to be able to watch the kids as they sleep.

 

 

Description

ASSETS

LIABILITIES

OTHER

 

 

 

 

Joint Checking Account

The checking account will stay in place as a means for Stacy to provide food and care for the kids.

 

David will help pay for a place for Stacy to live until such time as she is able to pay for her-self or until September 1, 2004 whichever comes first.

Starting February 2004, David will supply Stacy with personal living expenses in the amount of $700 per month to pay for rent, utility and groceries, food for herself. This money is for Stacy's needs exclusively. Additional fuel money will be provided with a receipt. This support will continue until September 1, 2004.

 

 

 

Additional funds will be available for children's needs with a receipt. This includes all childrens food, clothing, school supplies and transportation. This will continue until children graduate from High School.

 

 

 

Stacy's relocation funds to not exceed $2000 dollars including moving, utility and housing applications, and fist month rent.

Children

Joint custody of the children is understood and agreed upon by both parents. The children will reside primarily with both parents. Time and Schedule will be determined and agreed upon by both parents as time goes on. David will provide medical coverage though his employer for the children. Neither David or Stacy can threaten to take the kids away or use them for an excuse for any reason.

Physical custody of the children will be split equally with 64 hours per parent per week with alternating Saturdays. (See attached Schedule).  The childrens wishes for whom the want to stay will be considered.

 

 

 

Saturday's to be determined based on schedule availability of both parents. Weekend nights and Sunday are to be with Stacy. Long term school vacation arrangements to be determined upon agreement by both parents.

 

 

 

Child care between the time school lets out to will be provided by Stacy if work schedule permits. If Stacy's work schedule does not permit this, alternative child care to be provided by David.

 

 

 

After school child care includes carpooling to any after school activities, preparation of the evening meal, academic supervision and getting the children ready for bed. Costs associated with these activities to be provided by David with a recipt. Children's bedtime will be 9:00 pm on all school nights and children are expected to be in bed at this time regardless of the caregiver.

House

 

The house at 6949 Dove Cross Loop belongs to David. The house will be rented by February 1, 2004. Stacy must find a place to live by January 15th, 2004.

Mortgage, insurance and payment of all associated costs, maintenance and management of property and renters will be the sole responsibility of David.

Vehicles

1991 Ford Ranger - Paid for and will stay in the possession of David. This vehicle is to be put into David's name only as soon as the Jeep is paid for.

JEEP-1999 Grand Cherokee - David will continue to make payments on the vehicle until paid off. At that time the vehicle will be put in Stacy's name only.

Vehicle maintenance costs for the Jeep will be paid by David until September 1 2004.

Auto Insurance

Auto insurance will continue to be paid for by David. No change to the coverage should be made at this time.

Starting September 1 2004 Stacy will be responsible for providing auto insurance coverage for herself.

Loan's, Bill's

$10,000 dollar's to the Kids. David agrees to make payments to this to the sum of $5000. Furthermore if the loan is still outstanding at the time the $5000 is repaid David will continue to help Stacy make payment to see that the kids are re-paid their money.

Outdoors

The Lawn mower will stay with David. The rest of the tools in the shed will be dispersed as needed.

The pool is Stacy's. She is responsible for all financial responsibility for the pool.

Laundry Room

The Freezer, Washer and Dryer belong to Stacy.

Pets

Bird and cat will reside with Stacy. Dog with reside with Stacy if living quarters permit, otherwise reside with David.

Televisions

 25" Zenith-David's., Panasonic DVD Player with Surround Sound - David's.

27"-Toshiba  and entertainment center housed is Stacy's,

Computers

Dell-Stays with David. David will buy a new Dell to replace it by 6/1/2004.

 500mhz Emachine. - Zachary's, 500mhz Toshiba - Mirrissa's.

David will compensate Stacy in the amount of $2000 by 6/1/2004 for the Dell computer taken posession by David.

Kitchen Wares

All Stacy's

 

Dining Room

Table, Chair's all Stacy's

Bed Room

David will keep the dresser. The rest of the bedroom furniture belongs to Stacy. Including the Bed, Dresser, end table and the workout machine.

 

-----Original Message-----

From: Stacy Erickson [mailto:Serickso@tampabay.rr.com]

Sent: Wednesday, December 17, 2003 2:06 AM

To: 'David Prather'

Subject: RE:

    One other thing I wanted to ad, I shouldn't have to produce a receipt for  everything I buy for our children, if they need something I am going to buy  it regardless of WHO's money it is. I shouldn't have to be treated like  some common criminal that you think is stealing your money or draining the  bank account.